I've generally found that the easiest decisions we make only provide very short term benefits, and in some cases this time may literally be seconds. The easiest decisions are often the most appealing to our nature which may be one of avoiding conflict with others, or for some, it may feel more natural to nurture conflict as the easy solution. Even burying your head in the sand is still a decision, it's a decision to hide from actually making any decision and hoping that it wi

I’m currently sat in the Centre of Peterborough in Pret A Manger in the glorious sunshine drinking a Pomegranate & Hibiscus Water while doing my Blog for Austenmoore.com and my work for the business that I operate which is Talk Twenty 1 Ltd. I decided yesterday afternoon that I would make my way into the City today and do my work sat in the sun while watching the world go by as a change from the usual routine. A friend of mine is also filming a movie at the Park so I said I’d

Is this just an attention grabbing title? Or do I really believe this to be true? Well, I won’t waste any time in answering both of these questions, the title may have grabbed your attention and Yes, I really do believe it’s true. I ended up discussing this very subject the other day during a visit to my favourite little Italian sandwich bar called Fontanella’s in Whittlesey Cambridgeshire, where I often stop for an Espresso and the occasional Penne all'Arrabbiata. The day wa

We live in a time where we want everything right now. Even those of us that grew up with dial up internet first, have now forgotten how long that process took and how easily it dropped out in the middle of what we were doing. You could wait almost 5mins to actually get online in those days and pages could take equally as long to load up. Initially, the fact we even had the ability to do these things was so amazing that we hardly noticed the time it took. Or at least we didn't

One of the commonest things I hear is "I'm too old to Change" and if I don't hear that, then it just gets packaged up differently but means the same thing. Such as "It's just the way I am" or "I've done it that way far too long now to change". These are just limiting beliefs or if you want to be harsher but realistic, then call them excuses, because that is what they are. Change leads to growth and by saying you don't wish to change is saying you don't wish to develop further