I've generally found that the easiest decisions we make only provide very short term benefits, and in some cases this time may literally be seconds. The easiest decisions are often the most appealing to our nature which may be one of avoiding conflict with others, or for some, it may feel more natural to nurture conflict as the easy solution. Even burying your head in the sand is still a decision, it's a decision to hide from actually making any decision and hoping that it wi

One of the commonest things I hear is "I'm too old to Change" and if I don't hear that, then it just gets packaged up differently but means the same thing. Such as "It's just the way I am" or "I've done it that way far too long now to change". These are just limiting beliefs or if you want to be harsher but realistic, then call them excuses, because that is what they are. Change leads to growth and by saying you don't wish to change is saying you don't wish to develop further